Eight simple steps to help your child feel excited to go to school again

It’s back-to-school season but your little one isn’t too excited about it… Don’t worry. Puck can help you turn this challenge into a bonding experience for smiling faces and happy memories. We’re here to support you through real-life motherhood moments and help your family shine.

1. Acknowledge your child’s feelings

Your child might be acting stubborn because they’re anxious or scared about school. That’s why it’s a good idea to talk to them about their worries—maybe they’re stressed about grades, friends, or something else. Having a conversation can go a long way toward easing their fears.

2. Communicate openly and honestly

Encourage your child to share what they’re feeling. Creating an environment where they can express their thoughts and feelings without fear is vital. Make sure they know it’s okay to talk about their concerns. Look them in the eye, listen carefully, and show that you understand. Children feel more secure when they know they’re heard.

3. Set clear and consistent boundaries

Children feel safer when they know what’s expected. Set clear and consistent rules for behavior at home and school. Explain what’s okay and what’s not, and stick to these rules.

4. Use positive motivation

Rewarding good behavior can work wonders. Use kind words, extra playtime, or a small treat to encourage them. Positive reinforcement can make a big difference. Avoid negative feedback, punishment, or criticism.

5. Get ready together

Make back-to-school prep fun by involving your child. Let them pick out school supplies and new clothes. Go shopping for their school supplies and let them choose their lunchbox or even prepare it together in the morning! This small change can help reduce their anxiety and boost their excitement.

6. Keep a routine

Children can really benefit from having a routine—especially during times of change. Stick to a regular schedule for bedtime, meals, play, and study time. This consistency also helps reduce anxiety and makes going back to school easier.

7. Provide emotional support

Sometimes all your child needs is a comforting hug. Be there to offer love and security. Your emotional support can make all the difference in helping them move past any resistance.                                                                                              

8. Teach problem-solving skills

Help your child develop problem-solving skills by asking open-ended questions to make them think about practical solutions and let them choose the one they think works best. This not only boosts their self-confidence but also makes them feel more in control.

Getting your child back to school or finishing their lunchbox can be tough, but it’s also a chance to build a stronger and better relationship. By following these steps, you can help them adjust and feel more positive about the new school year. Remember, patience is key. Puck is here to support and celebrate you and your family every step of the way, offering articles and tips to guide you on your motherhood journey.